Co-dependent vs Co Creative really boils down to Power, the center of the energetic exchange,relating-exchange of energy, both spiritual energy and physical energy; co-dependence is relating from Needs/Fear,ego desires,unconscious presence,less Spirit infused authenticity, and the taking or giving away personal power as the basis of the relating, no new energy is created,all parties sense the need to hold on to or take their share,Scarcity , Co creative is relating from Love and power is equal ,balanced, respected, managed responsibly, amplified and new energy created,free flowing,sense of expansiveness,sharing,Spirit infused presence,Soul desires,Truth,Abundance,unlimited.
Ending physical energy exchange does not stop relating from the spiritual energy. If your relating with another person has unresolved issues such as guilt,blame,anger,sadness,unbalanced power distribution, you will remain in energetic relationship with them, whether the relationship is in the physical or one or both have "died",until the energies are neutral. If you think you can "die" physically and be done with the energetics of unresolved relating, you are mistaken. If you think you need a physical relationship to consider that you are in a relationship with another, you are mistaken, if you think because you have withdrawn from physical relating with someone , and maybe even started another physical relationship, if you have unresolved Power issues you will be energetically relating to the "other" until it is resolved. NOW, how as a society how are we going to address energetic infidelity, neutralizing Power InBalances?! Our primary intimate relationships which have been taking a beating in the social arenas are going to be significantly altered and overhauled understandings and agreements of relating universally addressed. Multi-dimensional Living. The Cave Man to Cosmic Man expansion can no longer be ignored. Human Experience,Spirit Experience - External God ,Internal God - Union,Harmonic Balance - the pin point of intersection of the double infinity -horizontal/vertical. There are relationship experts that claim any of your unmet needs, physical,sexual, emotional, mental, spiritual,sexual, that you reach outside of your primary intimate relationship to satisfy is a betrayal of intimacy to that primary relationship. Sexual infidelity does not need to be physical interacting, if you are using your sexual energy with others sexual energies..........You know , the emotional unavailability of a person, so you utilize, your guy nights or gal nights or social media likes and fans to fill..........Engaging in intellectual conversations exchanging mental energies........ Even more subtle the spiritual, energetic exchanges and entanglements that prevent your FULL participation in the primary intimate relationship...... In the Co Dependence, recovery movement that has swept across our mainstreams pushing the need for open, trust, and mature non binding relation and multiple sources of meeting our needs so to not behave Co Dependently actually serving to harm deep intimate clean relating between individuals, disempower rather than powering healthy intimacy and authentic depth in Sacred relating, expressions of loving energetic,physical expressions rather than,meeting needs? Relating as Ego's rather than Souls...... Humans relating with other humans do so physically,emotionally,mentally, sexually ,and spiritually, and we each have our own dictionary of what we feel is acceptable to share or have our primary intimate partners share and agreements in kind must be equal and spoken and understood and communicated openly. The days of unspoken expectations of taken for granted indiscretions in relating are being exposed and HONEST ,Transparent, spoken agreements return, Honoring, and Sacred interactions-Honor Codes, Brotherhood,Sisterhood,Humane interactions. All our relating is Sacred, exchanging energies with all other life energy emanating beings - not just Human, there is vital Life Force-Divine energies in all living beings, relating, exchanging energies....... Body or no body does not define living or death. Physical interaction is not the only definition of relating, Power- exchanges of energy- physical,mental,emotional,spiritual, Sexual.
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Worldy wisdom in check with innocence. Wolf Yellow rose of JOY. Pure Blue Sky. 19 One and Nine, Ten-1,0 Beginning, Ending, Neutral, Fire, Water, Air through your sacred vessel Happy St. Joseph Day, Happy New Year to Me..... Celebrate the Magic of your Life, Pure ,undistorted Divine magik PowerFourDays. New Moon- creation,Pisces endings,Aries fired up beginning, Solar Eclipse, Equinox, a bit more but I think you get the mouthful, How much energy can you distribute,transmute,balance, utilize, flow through without drowning and burning yet elementally vitalized,naturally alchemized?........ Be VERRRRRYYYYY CLEARRRRRR on your intentions, the essence of your desire, the commitment of your back it up and opening to receive the Universe' response! Your intentions will be your experiences for the 5 month between eclipse time, your letting go of that which is not in alignment to this New Vibration shift required to receive may not look like you have perceived however, refuse to be distracted that you may have been deceived, look again, better than realized conceived.... Thank You Thank You Thank You That which has been created on fear release with love knowing a sandy foundation was not intended to be the structure. The 22 builds on true and will not be swept away with the tides weathering with stride built for enjoying the ride. A locket in your pocket of bloodstone may be on your docket to soar like a rocket. It may appear a catch 22, between a rock and a hard spot however, master builders 22,raise their shields walking into what is skewed from view. Combining green ray heart healing with red blood body, the strength,courage, of Mind and Soul to manifest your personal truth and hearts desires upon the Earth. Inspired action with the fire passion ebbing and flowing, faith in the arrival on shore, may not look the same as before yet beholds magical lore of more no need to measure score,no true reference yet Known for sure....... As I Began To Love Myself By Charlie Chaplin
As I began to love myself I found that anguish and emotional suffering are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth. Today, I know, this is “AUTHENTICITY”. As I began to love myself I understood how much it can offend somebody if I try to force my desires on this person, even though I knew the time was not right and the person was not ready for it, and even though this person was me. Today I call it “RESPECT”. As I began to love myself I stopped craving for a different life, and I could see that everything that surrounded me was inviting me to grow. Today I call it “MATURITY”. As I began to love myself I understood that at any circumstance, I am in the right place at the right time, and everything happens at the exactly right moment. So I could be calm. Today I call it “SELF-CONFIDENCE”. As I began to love myself I quit stealing my own time, and I stopped designing huge projects for the future. Today, I only do what brings me joy and happiness, things I love to do and that make my heart cheer, and I do them in my own way and in my own rhythm. Today I call it “SIMPLICITY”. As I began to love myself I freed myself of anything that is no good for my health – food, people, things, situations, and everything that drew me down and away from myself. At first I called this attitude a healthy egoism. Today I know it is “LOVE OF ONESELF”. As I began to love myself I quit trying to always be right, and ever since I was wrong less of the time. Today I discovered that is “MODESTY”. As I began to love myself I refused to go on living in the past and worrying about the future. Now, I only live for the moment, where everything is happening. Today I live each day, day by day, and I call it “FULFILLMENT”. As I began to love myself I recognized that my mind can disturb me and it can make me sick. But as I connected it to my heart, my mind became a valuable ally. Today I call this connection “WISDOM OF THE HEART”. We no longer need to fear arguments, confrontations or any kind of problems with ourselves or others. Even stars collide, and out of their crashing new worlds are born. Today I know “THAT IS LIFE”! “One trace of condemnation against ourselves, or others, is a trace of condemnation against the Universal Creation of Love, and restricts us, limits our power to allow the Universal Love to flow through us to others.” – Dr. Edward Bach When Spring Blooms within it clears your inner meridians and all of Life Becomes a Romance. Even your Negative Nancy cuddles up for some Nestling snuggles. Nature has it's offerings of colors and scents to lighten up even the mustiest of odors....... Try a little Pine says Bach Remedies, the vibrations will assist in creating space for your true essence through transforming inner criticism,judgement, guilt, shame ,abuse,addiction to Self Esteem (the healthy kind, hahahaa) Self Acceptance, Self Forgiveness and Self Love and once you got it, You Can Give it........ A Few other helpers eager to raise your field for essence tle resonance are: Seraphinite- healing out of balance aspects of self, integrating and clearing for opening to Divine Love Dioptase- loving loose the ties that bind and gag to that which no longer serves you - forgiveness, opening the door to move forward Kunzite & Hiddenite- connects the flow with Joy and Gratitude Sugilite- ArchAngel Michael stone for taking actions on your Divine Life Purpose, Embodying your true desires and dreams to manifest and releasing any addictions or habits in the way........ Grab your "stones" head out for a walk in the woods, Nature is blooming with Romance to fill you up to overflowing, the high vibrations, love, colors, scents, songs of the Cardinal and Blue Jay, aaaaahhhhh, no words necessary, but LOTS TO SAY! Dance with the Spring In Your Step, Love in your Heart and the Beautiful Art of YOU, True....... You are not broken, wide open
Love You by Loving People You Are Fucking Incredible There is Nothing Better than Being YOU! You were made to Be Free No Holding Back........ ITS BEAUTIFUL Everyone Has this Beautiful There is room for ALL THIS BEAUTY, naturally No Manufacturing required, it's Sustainable Not Containable or Destainable ABLE Able able |
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