Co-dependent vs Co Creative really boils down to Power, the center of the energetic exchange,relating-exchange of energy, both spiritual energy and physical energy; co-dependence is relating from Needs/Fear,ego desires,unconscious presence,less Spirit infused authenticity, and the taking or giving away personal power as the basis of the relating, no new energy is created,all parties sense the need to hold on to or take their share,Scarcity , Co creative is relating from Love and power is equal ,balanced, respected, managed responsibly, amplified and new energy created,free flowing,sense of expansiveness,sharing,Spirit infused presence,Soul desires,Truth,Abundance,unlimited.
Ending physical energy exchange does not stop relating from the spiritual energy. If your relating with another person has unresolved issues such as guilt,blame,anger,sadness,unbalanced power distribution, you will remain in energetic relationship with them, whether the relationship is in the physical or one or both have "died",until the energies are neutral. If you think you can "die" physically and be done with the energetics of unresolved relating, you are mistaken. If you think you need a physical relationship to consider that you are in a relationship with another, you are mistaken, if you think because you have withdrawn from physical relating with someone , and maybe even started another physical relationship, if you have unresolved Power issues you will be energetically relating to the "other" until it is resolved.
NOW, how as a society how are we going to address energetic infidelity, neutralizing Power InBalances?!
Our primary intimate relationships which have been taking a beating in the social arenas are going to be significantly altered and overhauled understandings and agreements of relating universally addressed. Multi-dimensional Living. The Cave Man to Cosmic Man expansion can no longer be ignored. Human Experience,Spirit Experience - External God ,Internal God - Union,Harmonic Balance - the pin point of intersection of the double infinity -horizontal/vertical.
There are relationship experts that claim any of your unmet needs, physical,sexual, emotional, mental, spiritual,sexual, that you reach outside of your primary intimate relationship to satisfy is a betrayal of intimacy to that primary relationship. Sexual infidelity does not need to be physical interacting, if you are using your sexual energy with others sexual energies..........You know , the emotional unavailability of a person, so you utilize, your guy nights or gal nights or social media likes and fans to fill..........Engaging in intellectual conversations exchanging mental energies........ Even more subtle the spiritual, energetic exchanges and entanglements that prevent your FULL participation in the primary intimate relationship......
In the Co Dependence, recovery movement that has swept across our mainstreams pushing the need for open, trust, and mature non binding relation and multiple sources of meeting our needs so to not behave Co Dependently actually serving to harm deep intimate clean relating between individuals, disempower rather than powering healthy intimacy and authentic depth in Sacred relating, expressions of loving energetic,physical expressions rather than,meeting needs? Relating as Ego's rather than Souls......
Humans relating with other humans do so physically,emotionally,mentally, sexually ,and spiritually, and we each have our own dictionary of what we feel is acceptable to share or have our primary intimate partners share and agreements in kind must be equal and spoken and understood and communicated openly. The days of unspoken expectations of taken for granted indiscretions in relating are being exposed and HONEST ,Transparent, spoken agreements return, Honoring, and Sacred interactions-Honor Codes, Brotherhood,Sisterhood,Humane interactions.
All our relating is Sacred, exchanging energies with all other life energy emanating beings - not just Human, there is vital Life Force-Divine energies in all living beings, relating, exchanging energies.......
Body or no body does not define living or death. Physical interaction is not the only definition of relating, Power- exchanges of energy- physical,mental,emotional,spiritual, Sexual.
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